10 Top tips of negotiating …

bev • September 28, 2015

How many times do you think afterwards you could have got a better price or could just simply have said more when the deal was being discussed.

Please find some top tips to think about when you are next negotiating:-

  1. Focus on interests not positions – interests are your underlying motivators and a position can be limiting especially if you attach your ego to it.
  2. Expand the pie – have lots of options and ideas do not limit yourself entering the discussion
  3. Treat negotiation as a puzzle which needs to be solved rather than a battle to be won. Separate people from problem.
  4. Always know your BATNA (Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement). Consider the other person’s BATNA as well.
  5. Be respectful and empathetic to the person you are negotiating with.
  6. Make negotiations win/win
  7. Think of the level you are negotiating at:-
  8. Strategic – long term
  9. Tactical – immediate
  10. Political – other agenda
  11. Individual – personal
  12. Be careful not too steer the negotiation in the wrong direction:-
  13. Value Slayer – talk about price too quickly
  14. Value Snoozer – telling them something they know already
  15. Value Star – telling them something amazing that they don’t know
  16. Think about characteristics of great leaders, patience, fairness, resilience, respect and many more…
  17. Finally look for a wise agreement for both parties


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